Tuesday, April 4, 2017

What's acceptable and what's not?

   It's sad that we have to ask society if something is acceptable or not. I'm sure we've all been afraid to do that one thing because we don't want to seem weird or get judged. Of course you're not weird if you look like Kylie Jenner with the fake boobs, butt and lips. I mean I'm not going to lie, Kylie Jenner is gorgeous, but it's just crazy how so many girls worship and idol her. We all want to be accepted in this society, so we tend to do what everyone else does. Everyone has their own opinions, so we shouldn't do things based on people's opinions. If you like different music, then show it because you might find other people that like the same taste in music too. One of my friends love the Grateful Dead and I never heard about them until I met her. She even has a tattoo on her back. Even though it's not my usual type of music, I get good vibes listening to it.

      I use to worry so much about what people thought about me. I was so insecure about everything that I felt like I was trapped in a box. It was hard to stop caring, but I kept telling myself not to care and to be my true self. There will always be haters, but it's important to stay strong and stay true to yourself. "Kill them with Kindness" is what I always say. Recently.. more like yesterday, I found out this girl on my floor hates me and my friends and it really shocked me because I barely know her and all I ever do is say hi to her when I see her. I overheard her talking about me and my friend also overheard her talking about her too. All in the same day. It made me think how much she actually talks about us. But, who cares? Life will only get better and we should never let anyone bring us down.
 
   Social media sometimes makes things worse. It could be useful when it comes to spreading awareness, but not with the hype about how many followers or likes you have to be "Instagram worthy." With all the pictures of models with perfect bodies, it does make it hard not to be jealous. It's a bad habit to compare yourself to other people, but it's important to love yourself for who you are. For all we know, they could've had plastic surgery.
Another bad thing about social media is that it gives fame to people who don't deserve it. Like Danielle Bregoli, the "Cash me Outside" girl. It's aggravating how a little girl gets famous from disrespecting her mom and continues to be disrespectful. Anything that seems cool on social media becomes acceptable which isn't always fair. Now, she's making millions of dollars...

    We shouldn't worry about what's acceptable or not in society because we're all unique in our own way. People will always hate and judge, but that should never bring you down. It will only make them annoyed seeing you do well in life.

    




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